The discovery has left you reeling and you feel as if your whole world is shattered. There are so many questions. Did I really know him? Was our relationship all for nothing? Has she always lied to me? It is hard to think clearly. Your emotions are tumultuous--fear, sadness, embarrassment, shame, anger. You wonder if life will ever be the same again. These questions and reaction to finding out your partner cheated on you are normal and you are not alone. Dr. Willia